EGO




Ego and relationship are like sun and the moon, they do not go with each other. Ego is the synonym of evil. It comes with the emotions like fear, hate, obsession, and needy desire. Your ego must not be an obstacle in your relationship. The word, I has a very strong possession on our mind. We always give more importance to I than our relationship. The person who give more importance to I, is as person who thinks, he is humble and he has no ego. As long as you have an egoic mind, you cannot truly find peace in your relationship. Ego is like a parasite and your relationship is a host for that parasite. If you free yourself from ego, your relationship opens up endlessly. You have to understand that it is not always about you in relationship. Sometimes, you have to let go of things to make things right. When you apologize, the ego inside your mind will whisper to you,"What are you doing, Losing yourself ?". But it is worth losing yourself. We always come through quotes like, Letting things go does not mean that you are untrue, it means that you value your relationship more than your ego, so imply it. A bad day for your ego is a good day for your relationship.

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